Cultural Shock
I've been meaning to write this post for a while but hadn't gotten around to.
Here are a few things that have been different from what I am used to:
Men holding hands (fingers laced). It's really normal for friends to walk around holding hands. Even brothers and sisters. I guess it's the only human contact they get before getting married.
Dress code for women. A different perspective. You should not show your shoulders but the tummy is fine. For me the waist and belly are far more sensual than the shoulders. Totally the opposite here. No spaguetti straps but go ahead and wear the shirt just below your chest. Oh and show your whole back as well.
Cows in the street. They are more respected than people and will not get killed by a car (we would be)
Marriages and the treatment of women. I can't definitely write all about this so reading other sources is best. I just know that I am far too liberal to accept those conditions.
Language. Before coming people told me everyone spoke English. Yes at the work place. But not on your everyday life. To get anything done here I have had to have other friends help since I don't speak Hindi. Great dependence there!
The shock is not as great now. Definitely getting used to the surroundings.
Here are a few things that have been different from what I am used to:
Men holding hands (fingers laced). It's really normal for friends to walk around holding hands. Even brothers and sisters. I guess it's the only human contact they get before getting married.
Dress code for women. A different perspective. You should not show your shoulders but the tummy is fine. For me the waist and belly are far more sensual than the shoulders. Totally the opposite here. No spaguetti straps but go ahead and wear the shirt just below your chest. Oh and show your whole back as well.
Cows in the street. They are more respected than people and will not get killed by a car (we would be)
Marriages and the treatment of women. I can't definitely write all about this so reading other sources is best. I just know that I am far too liberal to accept those conditions.
Language. Before coming people told me everyone spoke English. Yes at the work place. But not on your everyday life. To get anything done here I have had to have other friends help since I don't speak Hindi. Great dependence there!
The shock is not as great now. Definitely getting used to the surroundings.

1 Comments:
I miss you so much! I love your "About Me" - you're so straight-forward. :) I'm glad things are going a bit better (or at least you're getting used to them). I promise to e-mail soon!
xoxo
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